318. Not Normal. No Definitions. What Next?

Jul 15, 2026

Are you made wrong for being different? What if there was no definition of you ever, and that was not wrong? As you acknowledge your difference and your unique capacities, more magic and miracles show up.

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks with Rachel O’Brien and Troy Aldanmaz about their experiences with being different and navigating this world.

When you acknowledge that you are different and your functionality is different, you can recognise that what you require is also different such that you can start choosing what works for you.

You chose to be born in this lifetime, in this body, as you - difference and all. What did you choose it for? Amp it up!

Questions And Tools:

"What am I perceiving?"
"Is this mine?"
"Who does this belong to?"
"Return to sender with consciousness attached."
"All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory."
"What am I aware of?"
"If I choose this, what will my life be like in 5 years, 10 years, 15 years? If I don't choose this, what will my life be like in 5 years, 10 years, 15 years?"

Tools:

Don’t project and expect others to be like you. Prefer to come from the space of, “This is what I require and this is what they require. How do we make it work?”
Stop trying to fit in with other people and this reality. You are different. You don't fit in and you will never fit.
Lean into your capacities and don't make yourself wrong for them.
Stop judging yourself. You're not wrong for not fitting in.
Nurture your reality. What is true for you?
Pretending you are normal when you are not is one of the most dangerous things you can do to yourself.
Add space.
What is your body asking for to help you navigate the world? Do you require more salt, sugar or water than what is considered 'normal'?
Be interesting point of view.
What is relaxation for you?
This reality tries to put a definition on everything and give you labels. What if it is okay to not have a label?
Autism is a question that nobody has ever been.
As you acknowledge your difference, more magic and miracles show up.
Where can you be on the planet that balances the Earth?
Choose what works for you.
Clear all the projections, expectations, separations, judgments and rejections on you from others.
Awareness is not a curse or something you need to get rid of; it's a contribution.
You chose to be born in this lifetime in this body. What did you choose it for? Amp it up.
Trust you, trust your body and let consciousness lead you.

What if there was no definition of you ever, and that was not wrong? And you never had to find out who, what, where, when, why, how you are and you're constantly changing, and that's okay? Everything that is, will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

318. Not Normal. No Definitions. What Next?

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