302. Relationships: Are You Still Choosing?

Mar 18, 2026

Is what you are currently choosing in relationships working for you? If not, that’s on you! You're the one who has to choose. What if your lover could be even greater? What if you asked for more? This is your life, what if you truly, truly lived?

In this episode of Choice, Change and Action, Simone Milasas talks about ways to create relationships that work for you as she answers relationship questions from listeners. She asks, what if you have all of you, you choose everything that works for you, and you invite someone into our life to have something different, to be something greater? That’s relationships done different, rather than as per this reality.

Enjoy every choice you make and enjoy the moments and the experiences that you have with you, your body, and with somebody else!

Questions And Tools:

"What would it take to have creationships in my life?"
"How did I create this?"
"What am I arguing for?"
"What's actually going to work?"
“Would I prefer to be right or to be free?”
"How can we do this different? Is there anything we can change here?"
"Have we done what we were meant to do together?"

Tools:

Ask for more ease: "All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory."
Learn to choose different and learn to choose what works for you.
Nothing you are choosing is wrong.
Have total allowance of your partner and what they are choosing, and of you and what you are choosing.
Look for somebody who would be a contribution to your life and living rather than ‘the one’.
Share different things with different people, e.g. friends, and not expect it all from your partner
Use energy pulls and flows.
instead of I'm right, you're wrong, "What's actually going to work?"
if you can't find what will work between the two of you, ask a friend
what are you making matter and so relevant that is keeping you from this amazing beautiful energy that you can be with someone and create a space that is filled with with possibilities and filled with contribution and filled with gratitude?
If you can't change something, is it time to move on?

What does ‘the one’ mean to you? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

What if everything you’ve been told about finding ‘the one’ is a lie? Everything that is, times a godzillion, will you destroy and uncreate it? Right and wrong, good and bad, POC and POD, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADs, creations, bases and beyonds.

As Mentioned In This Episode:

The 5 Elements of Intimacy recorded class with Simone: https://www.simonemilasas.com/offers/JBjkXvx4/checkout
Relationships Done Different online with Simone: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/relationships-done-different/relationships-done-different_639064055088492044/details/

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